tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57902699093601075102024-03-05T13:10:15.859-08:00life is not about how much you have.. its about how much you give..Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-39032088783112469992011-01-31T20:59:00.000-08:002011-01-31T20:59:25.638-08:00sorang2 kejeapa yang motivasikan anda untuk kerja jika satu bangunan cuti sebab raya cina.. so darm bosan.. waa..<br />
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maka baikla download gambar anak2 yang cute mute ni.. hehe<br />
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ni la possing tercute diorang.. kucar kacir anak2 bila mama shopping non stop kat Bandung.. hehe<br />
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so my highest income in a month is rm50k.. so double it to make rm100k permonth.. possible ke.. boleh je sebenarnya.. nak tak nak je.. dah lama dalam comfort zone.. jadi malas je nak mula berlari balik.. huhu.. kenapa nak susah2 if apa yg ada sekrang dah cukup.. eh lebih dari cukup..<br />
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betul ke dah cukup.. ke dah selesa dengan kesusahan sekarang.. cukup utk diri sendiri tanpa menyumbang pada orang lain??<br />
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buat apa2 mesti tujuan yang penting.. penting ke that challage for me.. adakah cukup meaningful same like i feel masa nak kumpul rm3000 for kenduri akikah hakimi...<br />
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andai i get my first rm100k.. what would i do..<br />
1. pegi holiday.. this year such an hethic year.. kerja tanpa henti.. pergi bercuti pun kena kerja.. mana nak pegi.. ada duit semua jalan.. eh semua tempat boleh berjalan2..<br />
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2. menderma.. bagus tapi pada siapa... kena detail lagi.. baru semangat..<br />
3. rumah idaman.. goal lagi 5 tahun.. rumah bukit jelutong harga toooot..<br />
tgh selesa and bergembira dgn rumah skrang.. pasal tu yg malas nak kluar rumah.. huhu.. bahaya btul comfort zone..<br />
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4. Main goal.. have saving cash rm100k dalam bank by hujung tahun.. this can really drive me... tgk baki akaun sendiri mcm tu.. duit saving dah makin susut sebab spend beli rumah and decorate rumah and beli keta... hemm.. duit masuk cam air keluar cam angin.. <br />
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so.. starting last week dah start the small steps.. tapi langkah pelan n tak laju.. sebab tak made decision.. kena juga made decision.. betul ke nak rm100k.. sanggup ke susah..Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-75754178578649564132010-10-06T01:42:00.000-07:002010-10-06T01:42:47.700-07:00kepeningan melampauarini memang pening.. kena hantar utk 3 bulan latihan start november ni tapi tak tau nak buat apa..<br />
untuk memudahkan decision making.. kena semak..<br />
Pertama:<br />
matlamat saya :<br />
1. nak buat research sebab kalu setakat klinikal punya pengalaman memang dah ada<br />
2. if tambah ilmu: lenkali boleh buat.. research lagi penting.. setakat ni cam ok je ngajar<br />
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my option<br />
PPUM or HKL<br />
PPUM dah biasa, so basicly dah tau selok belok dia.. ada partner nak buat research.. dekat dgn rumah.. <br />
HKL - jauh n parking problem.. tak tau boleh buat research ke tidak. tapi byk training.. tu yg best.. <br />
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kesimpulan.. call dua2 and tgk yg mana ok..<br />
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sesungguhnya jadi hana juga best.. tadela nak pening2.. makan tidur.. bestnyeee..Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-58545259801309683792010-07-04T21:55:00.000-07:002010-07-04T21:55:04.131-07:00new semester startharini start new semester.. dah terbayang stress2 yang menanti..<br />
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list thing to do pun bersepahla..<br />
1. buat soalan exam<br />
2. siapkan poster<br />
3. proposal for mnt cancer <br />
4. submit borang and mda paymentMrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-77465885275338008892010-02-20T05:21:00.000-08:002010-02-20T05:21:02.564-08:00housewifei had already finish my master after 18 months of struggle.. however.. some funny thing happen. im suppose start working by January.. suddenly my faculty ask me to take leave until i got my scroll while the scholarship ask me to work.. memang pening.. so until today.. im staying at home.. helping The King doing the business.. prince and orincess hantar tadika.<br />
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sometime life full of unexpected things.. in my case.. imagine if we do not hv side income.. how are we gonna face our life when suddenly one of us hilang pendapatan... camane nak bayar rumah, 2 keta and support 2 anak and expenses lain.. memang perlu untuk ada back up income.. even you are in comfort zone.. sebab hidup memang di luar jangkaan.. <br />
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business quit slow as we move to new house.. need some adjustment to adapt with new area.. tempat jauh dari orang so agak susah nak set aptment.. but sometime sume tu just excuses.. where is the will there is the way.. just kena betul2 arrange utk pegi n jumpa sapa..Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-4544710703267879152009-04-20T07:39:00.000-07:002009-04-20T08:04:58.016-07:002 anakalhamdullilah.. dah selamat lahirkan my second baby.. baby sofea hana. lahir 2.48 kg je.. born at 37 week.. sepatutnya 5 mac tapi 18 hb dah kluar sebab placenta rendah. ceaser lagi.. memang pengalaman hebat btul.<br /><br />maka bermula la episod menjaga 2 anak.. memang cabaran besar. ingatkan jaga sorg dah mencabar.. rupanya 2 lagi mencabar kesabaran.. mula2 kesian kimi sebab terpaksa tidur ngan bibik.. malam2 cari mama.. mama plak sibuk kena susukan adik.. memang terasa hati btul kimi dibuatnya.. 3 minggu hana lahir, satu rumah diserang demam n batuk2. memang penat berjaga malam. hana n kimi dua2 demam.. mama n papa pun sama.. alhamdullilah, semua recover after 1 week selepas berulang alik ke klinik berkali2.. penat tak hilang lagi, second week pantang has to start practical at IPHKL for 1 month.sian hana asik kena tinggal.. mama pulak asik pam susu je kat ward.. janji hana dpt khasiat susu ibu.. kan..kan..<br /><br />now, semua dah setle down.. dah bleh rehat skit.. hana dah 2 bulan.. kimi pun kemain sayang ke adik.. cium adik je.. mama plak dah relak n now study for exam..<br /><br />about kimi.. baru celebrat besday ke 2 dia.. apa yg dia pandai sekarang.. erm.. salam semua org, cium dengan bunyi cup yg kuat, susun kereta n basikal dia di keliling rumah, tgk cd car hari2, asik nak berjalan je.. tapi ckp masih tak berbunyi lagi.. btul2 bunyi mcm pinggu.. risau btul.. mayb take time skit..<br /><br />papaMrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-55235439280222882412008-11-20T06:50:00.000-08:002008-11-20T07:13:27.138-08:00cuti dan cutistarting last thursday.. aku dah start cuti for almost 45 days.. cuti semester.. class will start back on 2 january 2009...masa kerja dulu cuti paling lama 4 hari je.. sekarang.. my wish to have more time has comes true.. so, im gonna make full use of it.. start with list thing to do everyday.. <br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">for myself</span><br />1) susun all my books and file for the last sementer (done)<br />2) kemas brg baby kimi yang lama and organize baby stuff for this new baby.. takut bukak semester takde masa nak buat semua nih<br />3) kemas my room and create my dream list again.. collect picture and so on..<br />4) survey new hp or pda or pdaphone.. going to buy it this december.. aku mmg buta it.. susah btul..<br />5) bayar semua hutang PTPTN (done)<br />6) gantung frame baru yang dah lama terbengkalai<br />7) read lots of book.. target 3 books this holiday.. probably.. all 3 business books<br />8) start writing article on health yang dah lama terperap dalam otak ni..<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">for my hubby n kimi</span><br />1) kemas kimi toys, compile education material for him<br />2) kemas baju2 lama dia and simpan yang tak muat<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;"><br />for my business</span><br />1) make my list name, the person that i would like to meet and share<br />2) help my hubby to make 6 figure income permonth by next year..<br />3) make more many so i can give more later... tarhet my own 4 set by this months.. u can do it babe!!<br />4) tender loving care... remember that when im deal with my customer<br />5) buat iklan dalam magz wanita or utusan..<br />6) flyer yang aku angan2 kan bilala nak siap.. waaaMrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-21676866699962085622008-10-18T20:17:00.000-07:002008-10-18T20:53:28.062-07:00changes in life...rindunya nak tulis blog sendiri.. last tulis dah setahun lepas.. sekarang banyak betul changes happened in my life.. dalam masa setahun je.. now 19 October 2008.. baru lepas raya hari ke 19..<br /><br />1. hakimy dah setahun 6 bulan.. dah sgt2 pandai.. cuma tak pandai cakap je lagi.. tapi memang tak puas main ngan dia.. tabiat terbaru.. tgk barney or elmo sambil minum susu depan tv.. kena buka lampu liplap raya kat luar kalau keluar rumah.. suka naik keta volwagen tok ayah n naik sendiri motor skuter papa.. suka banget cerita upin n ipin.. akan tarik tangan n tunjuk apa dia nak.. pandai tunjuk eyes, mouth n nose.. tapi bab nose.. papa dia ajar ajaran sesat.. ada patut masuk tgn dlm nose sambil sengih2.. sabar je la.. flash kad dah tak nak baca.. tapi minat books now.. kalau tunjuk flash kad ada lagi yang dia ingat.. tak sia2 usaha yang lama. hakimy dah stop bf.. heheh.. masa 15 bulan.. sebab mummy dia pregnant lagi.. tapi sampai skrang tade susu still nak isap juga sebelum tidur.. lepas gian.. kesian juga tgk... dia tak puas lagi minum susu ibu dah mummy dia preggy lagi.. first 2 bulan preggy mmmg asik muntah2. mkn pun tak cukup.. susu stok trus trun,.. terpaksa sumbat formula..walaupun selalu botol tu kea campak.. tapi alhamdullilah dia dapat rasa khasiat susu ibu al this long..<br />bab makan memang lemah.. dia tak nak makan sgt.. masuk makanan dia tolak balik..siap tutup mulut rapat2 lagi.. last2 mama dia surender.. bibik je rajin nak kejar bagi dia makan.. satu cabaran yang hebat..<br /><br /><br />2. my life also has changed a lot.. i have achieved one of my dream.. to futher master within 5 years working..now i have quit my job n fultime student under Uitm.. semua berlaku tanpa sedar.. law of attraction agaknya.. dah lama cari peluang nak sambung master.. hasrat 3 tahun tercapai jua.. asal ada peluang je pegi cari.. dari nak buat part time tetiba jadi full time.. bulan 4 pegi interview.. bulan 6 dpt offer. patut pegi ausie bulan 7 tapi mana la nak sempat urus anak n hubby.. cannot2.. then rayu dpt ukm.. berenti keje bulan julai.. terkejut bos.. notis 24 jam.. hehe2.. dah start blajar almost 3 months..<br /><br />belajar ok.. best.. cuma asg malas nak buat.. tapi bila hantar mmg rasa perfect la.. heheh.. perasan.. presentation alhamdullilah.. most lecturer puji n suka.. alhamdulliah.. byk gak stay up mlm2 buat asg.. baru byk idea tgh mlm.. now exam start dari 2 nov until 13 nov.. satu buku pun tak baca lagi.. sibuk buat asg lagi.. esok kena hantar.. apalaa nak jadi.. harini mesti siap k.. hehe<br /><br />the best part..now nak masuk baby kedua.. pegi bandung n jakarta holiday bulan 7 then muntah2 kat sana.. rupanya preggy.. mujur tak pegi oversea.. pengsan sorg2 nak jaga baby n anak lagi.. hakimy akan dpt adik bln 3 tahun dpn.. yeahhh!!<br /><br />3. hubby.. alhamdullilah.. rezeki murah sejak bulan 4 tahun nih.. cuba bisnes baru.. alhamdullilah.. dah lama tak rasa duit yang betul2 duit.. tahun ni baru dpt bernafas skit.. banyak dah boleh buat.. tak pernah mimpi nak rasa income 5 digit.. now its come true.. mr H beli keta pasang NGV nye.. lagi senang nak buat bisnes dia.. hutang kredit kad setle.. dah boleh saving n invest.. n boleh bagi duit ke mak ayah.. tu yg penting.<br /><br />4. n last sekali.. antara impian sekian lama is nak masuk tv.. angan2 nak masuk WHI tapi dapat NLKO kira oklaa.. 10hb lepas time kelas tetiba tv9 call minta jadi jemputan utk the next day show.. tanya mrH.. dia sentiasa sokong.. so selamba je pegi walaupun takde pengalaman.. tapi ok kot rasanya.. malu nak tgk siaran semual. tak berani lagi tgk diri sendiri.. hehhe..<br /><br /><br />nway.. i really thanks to Allah for all the bless and nikmat he give to me.. 2008<br />is a good year to us.. Alhamdullilah..Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-60267183002527649262008-04-23T02:01:00.000-07:002008-04-23T02:04:53.103-07:00The Details Of Our Life<div align="left">i have come across this story twice and it still touch my heart each time i read it.. <div align="left"></div><div align="center">The Details Of Our Life<br />When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.<br />She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words; instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Zana. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!<br />With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Zana so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.<br />The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Zana. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.<br />In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a months time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.<br />This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.<br />I told Zana about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.<br />My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.<br />On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realised she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.<br />On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life tome. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Zana about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.<br />She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me. She had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out.. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.<br />I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Zana opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Zana, I do not want the divorce anymore.<br />She looked at me, astonished. Then she touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said.. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Zana, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realised that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Zana seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.<br />At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:<br />I'll carry you out every morning until death does us apart.<br />The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah ... blah ... blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! </div></div>Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-88574275468127269312008-01-22T00:10:00.000-08:002008-01-22T00:53:00.270-08:00relationshiptoday my 26th birthday.. plus anniversary 3 tahun kawin. wedding sama hari dengan my birhtday. tak sangka ek.. dahla lama kahwin. aku terbaca research dlm magz says that.. people attract to each other and fall in love due to some hormon (i.e adrenalin) but this hormon only last for three years.Means after that, we couldn't rely on our love only to survive with our relationship and days to days life.. we must take some actions to have that love agains.. emm.. might be right but take things positively.. the points is takbleh takes your relationship for granted. if you want your marriage to success, u must work hard on it..put some commitment. lagi lama kahwin lagi banyak effort kena amik utk pastikan that your love accounts tak kering.<br />aku suka konsep love accounts ni. it means, whenever ko buat something good toward your partner, you cash in some money to your love accounts, but bila marah or gaduh or ada salah apa2, you will widhraw some money from your love account. accounts yang negative yangg bahaya sebab bila dah takde apa2 dlm accounts, you have nothing about that relationship yang you hargai.<br /> Agak setuju, lately im quite sensitive and terasa hati for litle2 thing. contoh klau minta tolong hubby agak lambat nak tolong or mcm tak nak tolong je.. terasa skit, bahasa kurang mesra pun terasa gak.. yer la mana nak sama dulu masa mula2 kawin tolong tutupkan pintu.. sekarang.. dah tak pandai nak tutup pintu ke.. amboi manisnya ayat.. haha.. tapi have to eveluate my side juga.. if u want thing to change, be the changes that you want. akupun dah sibuk ngan bby. everything bby will comes first. actually bleh je sebenarnya bila ada masa skit, cash in something to our love bank account. eg dulu slalu facialkan muka hubby,since ada bby tak pernah nak scrub<br />muka dia.. Breakfast pun jarang nak teman makan.. em.. have to do some changes.. good luck to me..Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-7210186160362353082007-11-05T00:37:00.001-08:002007-11-05T00:46:36.551-08:00disiplinni 1st Ramdhan ada anak.. tahun lepas pregnant je.. hehhe.. n pengajaran paling bagus aku belajar ialah disiplin. sejak puasa ini aku berjaya disiplinkan diri untuk bangun awal.. untuk aku memang achivement yang sangat2 baik.. sebab memang dari dulu kala susah nak bangun. alhamdullilah after bulan puasa dah boleh bangun pkul 6.30 pagi n trus mandi.. bangga dengan diri sendiri..my only weakness memang disipli. rasanya if aku perbaiki bab ni, byk positive changes for my life. so, my next project n goal..<br />1.nak punch kat office pukul 8 (now punch 8.30).. so bleh balik awal 5pm n enjoy lebih banyak masa with hakimy.. <br />2. read more books.. at least 5 minutes perday..<br />3. pam susu 3 kali sehari instead of 2.. time bulan puasa berjaya dari sekali pam ke 2 kali.. insyaAllah kimi dapat lebih susu nanti..<br />4. use time wisely kat office..<br />good luck to myself =)Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790269909360107510.post-38381763230235044922007-10-07T18:02:00.000-07:002007-10-07T22:11:51.735-07:00hakimi<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrpuOrmImkMep3mCf2-hsaZNUUyh9aqYEUjLQ5mjcWxuyRAf1BQvcpzr7FK1JTlFuNfcAfYpQHUlwP1xkdMiRAFE40EQiaw0S7MRkWWK3MLc_GHRD_7KWQ_3OjzJJ4GtfabSITHI2i60U/s1600-h/P9010203.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5118829015962846226" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrpuOrmImkMep3mCf2-hsaZNUUyh9aqYEUjLQ5mjcWxuyRAf1BQvcpzr7FK1JTlFuNfcAfYpQHUlwP1xkdMiRAFE40EQiaw0S7MRkWWK3MLc_GHRD_7KWQ_3OjzJJ4GtfabSITHI2i60U/s320/P9010203.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2uliagw9jR-lzVswB29pe4IxVNa-vSj2OAGyqQ1p6x8lx0pxt5gCrEogVSCwnZzuzWfeA9AXHh_tKByS2DcCr3u8dnAu607Ph5TbOPZDpcMroMHQIM5ruBftPua4W0rFwixwQf2ifnVM/s1600-h/P8220090.JPG"></a><br /><br /><br /><div>hakimi dah nak masuk 6 bulan.. dah makan skit2. semalam bagi makan nasi+carrot. dapatla 2 sudu makan. takut nak bagi byk2. tunggu betul2 6 bln kot.. rasa dia mcm kecil lagi je.. tapi terasa gak mcm berat dia makin susut.. but still active like usual. sekarang kimi ada perangai baru. klau nak menyusu mesti tgn nak pegang mulut mama dia.cute btul rasa... </div><br /><div>semalam dgr tazkirah lepas terawih best jugak. 6 tanda ada penyakit hati. tak ingat semua tapi antaranya 1) bila ada muzibah/masalah kita salahkan Allah cth dia bagi kita ada anak sorang tapi sakit. org ada anak sepuluh tak sakit.. kira kita blame knape anak kita yg sorg sakit n mati.. 2) bila ada nikmat tak bersyukur cth gaji naik tapi komplain tade bonus (cam aku je) 3)bila buat dosa delay bertaubat cthnya lambat smayang.. takpe.. hidup lama lagi.. mcm ye je lama.. 4) lepas antar org mati tak insap.. aku baru 2 kali antar org ke kubur.. insaf la kejap. alamak.. lagi 2 tak ingat.. tapi untuk aku.. kira ada pencapaian la sebab ingat 4/6 hehehh.. klau laki aku tau sure dia bangga.. hahah.. </div></div>Mrs Haiqalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10814071356239580566noreply@blogger.com0